Speaking of idiots...
To whom would these photos be embarrassing?
If you a referring to the deceased, you might consider that the dead have no emotions. Might as well make fun of a box of sand, and I'll be the one laughing at you.
Riiiighhht. You have a humor gene deficiancy if you don't realize that the last bit there was tongue in cheek. Lighten up, don't take yourself so seriously, and maybe, just maybe, you'll find some joy in your life.