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#23
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02-11-2012, 11:44 AM
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Re: Woman In 'Suicide Pit'
I think I've got to be the exception to your rule, dear. I killed myself in 2009, was revived by a very competent ER doc. I was angry at being brought back then, and angry about it now. Things haven't changed...only difference is I have tools to cope with it. |
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02-11-2012, 12:28 PM
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Re: Woman In 'Suicide Pit'
There's no half stepping to suicide- you either do it or you don't. I have a couple of friends in wheelchairs with neurological impairments, and both were unsuccessful suicide attempts. I don't know about happy to be alive. I think the difference is that they don't know any thing better than life now. Went from totally normal people to limping, wheelchair bound, slurring handicapped people. It really blew my mind. When you have all you need, you always want more. Sometimes your perspective changes, and you see that you have all you need.
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02-13-2012, 05:44 PM
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Re: Woman In 'Suicide Pit'
I don't know where you live, but, it used to piss me off in the US, when people would commit suicide by train always during rush hour and no one would tell you what was going on. On the other hand, I guess when you feel it's time, it's time and the suicidal person is way past thinking of others. I realize suicidal people need help, but, I think it is the coward's way out. Life is much harder and everything is not always happy. |
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#28
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02-13-2012, 05:50 PM
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Re: Woman In 'Suicide Pit'
I'm sorry to hear that, Brainplague! I'm glad you're here. You've helped me with my posts and I enjoy yours. My oldest brother drank himself to death. It's a very helpless feeling when someone is suicidal. We don't know how to help. I used to think suicidal people should be left to die, if that is their wishes. It's a very hard thing for the living to deal with. I miss him. |
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#29
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02-14-2012, 11:50 AM
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Re: Woman In 'Suicide Pit'
Aw, shucks. Dealing with suicides and the suicidal is, to me anyway, one of the hardest things to deal with. I'm sorry about your brother. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you and your family experienced. Knowing that there is help, and he wouldn't take it. |
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#30
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02-14-2012, 01:59 PM
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Re: Woman In 'Suicide Pit'
Respectfully I disagree Black Night .When someone eats a bunch of asperin, or scratches their wrist for attention, I just want to slap them . But putting your body in front of a train is for real in too much pain to live. With girls I learned, the number one reason for pain, is unbearable shame. And the number one reason for unbearable shame is childhood sexual abuse. I understand how putting people in jeopardy isnt cool. But I bet you would have gone down and got her , if you saw her in real life . I think I would have to, or at least I hope I would.
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