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#2551
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06-08-2014, 10:18 PM
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Re: Some EMO Girl Needs Serious Help
It's not that she's just cutting - it's the fact that she's removing pieces of herself on purpose...  |
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#2554
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08-11-2014, 11:12 PM
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 My Rank: CORPORAL Poster Rank:1309 Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 463 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Quoted: 24 Post(s)
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Re: Some EMO Girl Needs Serious Help
this prob done been said a hundred times or more in 250+ pages on this but if ya wanna fuckin die so bad....go for your throat not just arms and legs.she's obviously good at it and can take it and keep cutting so I'd wager she could halfway cut off her own head before loosing too much blood to stay conscious,. my nx wife was a cutter as a teen and so was current gf.they each have their own reasons for starting that but as gf tells me it becomes like an addiction.sounds reasonable to me...idk...never had an addiction.luckily for gf she got out of that phase and addiction without scaring herself up too badly....nothing as extreme as this one or the other a few posts up.ppl that really wanna die...really do it right...not just for attention of unstoppable habit...whatever. |
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#2557
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10-03-2014, 01:42 AM
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Re: Some EMO Girl Needs Serious Help
Fuck you, dude. Man up, why are you on this site? We want more info. At least say where the Fuck you live our where you see her. You are useless. Leads me to believe you are full of fucking shit. ....I can't believe I lost my temper on this site |
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#2558
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10-03-2014, 07:36 AM
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Re: Some EMO Girl Needs Serious Help
Calm your tits...it's not like she's a celebrity or anything. And he's right, there's nothing he could do for this dumb bitch anyway...she's obviously fucked in the head.
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10-04-2014, 08:41 PM
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 My Rank: LANCE CORPORAL Poster Rank:2476 Best of both worlds Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 177 Mentioned: 0 Post(s) Quoted: 23 Post(s)
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Re: Some EMO Girl Needs Serious Help
As has also probably been said a trillion times already From the point of view of someone who has a history of suicide attempts and self-injury -"I want to die" does not exactly equal wanting to die. It equals being in a pit of despair so fucking deep you see no point in even being alive. It's a limbo between no longer wanting to live, but seeing no other way out than death. And for someone to stay alive, to keep on living despite being in that pit, no matter what mechanisms they use be they cutting, drinking or writing, That takes some pretty big balls, don't you think? -CUTTING IS NOT ATTENTION-WHORING. Again, Cutting Is Not Attention Whoring. One more time: Cutting is not attention whoring. Once more for the type of person who says such bullshit: cuting iznt attn whorin When I used to cut, the person taking care of me would beat the shit out of me whenever they found a new cut, a razor or anything in my room. Like flat out throwing me into walls and shit, fists to the face, etc. My circle of friends back then made fun of cutters, saying the same shit I see posted here by assholes who are more a danger to others than a cutter ever would be. You'd think if it was just for attention I'd cut it out, right? Wrong. I learned how to hide my shit better, used my chest and pubic area as a nice scratching post instead. All the while laughing with my friends about stupid emo cunts slashing themselves up for attention. Hypocritical? Fuck yeah. But what better cover, to hide something so shameful because being sad is so wrong, right? For many it's the only fucking way they know how to express their pain. They, like me, may be in a situation where they can't cry (In my household I'd get the shit beaten out of me for crying too, or being anything other than happy), where they have nobody to go to, no friends who would understand, writing or a hobby only distracts from the pain for a little while. -Myth: Cutters are miserable and you can totally spot one Wrong. I was an am an extrovert, always laughing, etc. The happiest ones are usually the ones with the most hurt. The person in all black is likely mentally healthier, since they get to express their misery out in the open :P Plus again, there are so many ways to hide cuts from clothes to makeup to simply making excuses as people will only see what they want to see. And who wants to see the fact that their friend's a cutter? -Myth: All cutters are teenage girls, and cutting is a sign of weakness I'm a grown man, and so are the other two people I know who used to cut. Though to be fair, I started in my teens and didn't stop till adulthood. I've been about three years cut-free now thanks to finally getting the fuck out of where I used to live, getting my needs met and finding myself a supportive partner. Cutting's done to relieve pain for a little while, mostly. It's used to express what cannot be said, and more. What would be stronger then, if cutting is weak? Keeping it all inside? That's how suicides and attempts happen, in a moment of panic when emotions get so overwhelming and won't stop and things just need to be silenced for a little while and the world feels like it's caving in. Fact is, it's neither strong or weak. It's a survival mechanism. And to actually show one's cuts, to make a statement saying "I've been at this place that has hurt like a motherfucker" in this society that says that it's weak to cry or cut, IMO that takes some big brass balls. Showing one's pain or past hurts is strong. Cowards hide and deride it. |
