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11-19-2010, 06:30 PM
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Re: Self Harm Thread?
Haha someone goes on Cutting Image  I started a thread for my SH here: http://www.documentingreality.com/fo...lf-harm-55866/ I liked your blog pics, feel free to PM anytime xox |
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#62
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11-19-2010, 08:02 PM
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Re: Self Harm Thread?
I used to cut myself. WHEN I WAS 14. Then I realize that if I thought I was ugly, how the hell would all these scars help that? I was like ... ugh, fuck I really am gonna be one ugly fuck if I keep up this shit. So I quit. |
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11-22-2010, 06:38 AM
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Hey guys. You do realise that with all this hateful critiscism, she would have gone and cut herself up all over again just to ease the pain of the hurting words? Not everyone does this for attention. She's sick. She admits it. Fuck back when I was 18 I burnt and slashed myself. I NEVER showed ANYBODY. My sleeves were ALWAYS down. I DIDN'T want anybody knowing. Not everyone is like that. Now 23 years later I help and listen to 'slashers'. There is a LOT of stuff that is going on for them that feeling pain is easier to deal with. It's not as simple as people think it is. Yes I am now a highly qualified Nurse and a Drug and Alcohol Rehab Worker, so I got over my stuff that was causing me to 'slash'. I will tell you the reason why I got into it. When I was 14 a guy on a trailbike tried to run me down, until he caught me. Sexually assaulted me then tried to murder me and throw my body in a swamp. Obviously I survived. But mentally I didn't. I was told that I should "Pick myself up. Dust myself off and get on with my life." God the guy almost killed me. "Hello????!!!" Years of being told that and not being allowed to talk about it, because if you don't talk about it, it didn't happen. Well it did and mentally I couldn't cope with anything! So one day I put a smoke out on my arm. Don't have a reason why I did it then. I think it was to punish my horrible self. The pain was intense. Yeah it hurt BUT I felt so much better mentally. I was addicted then. 9 years later and a Hell of a lot of work, I no longer do self harm things, and help people who do. Weither by drugs, grog or razor blades. I now see the scars on my arms. And I hate them. They embarrass me greatly. I think I'm asking don't automatically assume with these sorts of things. |
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#67
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11-22-2010, 06:43 AM
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Re: Self Harm Thread?
A valid argument but unfortunately not all of us can empathize with this type of thing, myself included in this unfortunately I ain't gonna lie. I don't understand it, I never will and I really don't think I can sympathize or understand why people would do this shit to themselves. I've had some fucked up shit happen to me, hell in high school I didn't have a single friend all the way through it. People just didn't like me. I'm overweight and single probably forever but I'll be damned if I'm going to fuckin cut myself...then I would let 'them' win and that is not an option.  |
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11-22-2010, 06:47 AM
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Re: Self Harm Thread?
Thank you for your feedback. It is hard to understand. Especially if you have never been there and done that. Too many people now do this just because it is "cool" and "trendy". But it's NOT! |
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11-23-2010, 12:50 AM
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Re: Self Harm Thread?
"Please be kind, not all self-harmers are attention whores, some of us just like to take pics of their cuts for THEMSELVES."  |
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#70
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11-23-2010, 12:26 PM
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Re: Self Harm Thread?
they should keep the pics to themselves then.
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