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07-28-2023, 08:42 AM
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Re: My Mom
In my case, I think it was a bit of both. I've experienced some trauma when I was a child but also was a bit bored and unstimulated when growing up. I was a very creative kid and maybe that specific trait stood me apart from my peers. I often didn't jive well with other girls of my age and even though I've always loved men as friends, their romantic expectations sometimes got in the way. So, in a way I was quite lonely and drinking seemed to be the perfect solution to my situation (spoiler alert: t wasn't).
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07-28-2023, 11:42 PM
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Re: My Mom
My mom died very similar for very similar reasons. I'm sorry...
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07-29-2023, 03:15 AM
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How old was she? My mum died at 42. Every organ in her body failed and the only relatively ok organ was her heart. Tbh I didn’t think she had one! Here if you need to talk. |
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07-29-2023, 05:10 AM
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She was 60. She had so many problems. I don't think there was an organ in her body that was good.
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07-29-2023, 05:13 AM
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She probably had that too but that is not what killed her. She had a hole in her intestines that they didn't know about for the surgeon guessed 6 days. It caused her to go into septic shock. Both of those reasons were listed on her death certificate.
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#39
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07-29-2023, 05:17 AM
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Does that look like a good life? She drank so much that she was in a wheelchair at 58 because her bones were so brittle that she couldn't stop breaking them. Sounds like a great fucking life to me. I fight everyday to live for my kids and she chose to just give up. Great life. BTW Fuck you on behalf of me!!
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07-29-2023, 06:42 PM
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Re: My Mom
Just because someone gave birth to you does not mean you owe them anything or have to be there for them. Not your life or past so basically, fuck you for judging others :) |
Fuck you! 
(On your mom's behalf)
Glad she lived a good life without you. 
