I was a model and had one particular boyfriend who got really seriously 'stupid' one night.
The moment we met he made it very clear that he thought woman should be subservient to men.
I lived with my mom and dad until I got married, so thankfully, I was never alone, (in my bedroom) with him really, because my mom and dad were 'VERY STRICT.'
The few times we did date, we would always meet with friends at the movies or double dated.
But he did have me alone in his car.
I'd done a 'shoot' semi naked (very slightly topless) and he found out through a gir friend of mine. When he asked me about it, in his car, the following evening, I was honest to the T, and I told him it was a 'partial topless' shoot. (Meaning bottoms on but top partially off, showing a little areola, but no actual nipple).
I hadn't even gotten all the words out when he backhanded me across my face so hard I saw black and shooting lights, like stars in a black sky. Blood gushed out of my nose and I was soon covered in it. He went berserk...
He preached to me while driving down 'Courtenay Street' towards my house in Fancourt, he backhanded me again.
This guy called me everything under the sun. I was in a situation that I swore I would never be in again. I was TERRIFIED. I also knew he 'carried' and that was what was now first and foremost in my mind.
I prayed like I've never prayed before, and I apologised profusely, over and over again. I told him that he 'REALLY needed to quietly drop me off because if my dad saw me... he'd kill him.' He ended up leaving me at the top of my driveway with him saying "I'm so sorry baby...please forgive me, please, don't tell your dad!!" I was saying "I forgive you, just please...dont let my dad see you with me like this." (I promised I wouldn't tell my dad it was him)
I saw him 'out and about' after that, but he never came up to me again. He'd send messages through common friends, and I got flowers and a card once at work... but I gave him the freezing cold shoulder after that.
I recon that if I'd been belligerent, argumentative and belittling to him in this circumstance, I think this situation would have been alot worse than it was.
Terrible situation to be in. I remember my entire body shaking. I was a total mess and I didnt date anyone for a very long time after that.
Ladies, be very careful out there.
Good instincts at hand, but why did you hook up with him anyways?
. Also any chance for those photos?
