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03-06-2013, 02:45 PM
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| Your Mothers Nightmare... Poster Rank:411 Male Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 2,856 Mentioned: 4 Post(s) Quoted: 1036 Post(s)
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Re: My Breast Reduction
As a man, and an admitted non boob person that transformation is astounding! A very good friend had a similar operation a good few years back and as about the only man she knew who never stared, letched or tried to "cop a feel" she called round after her operation (I had been oversea's and out of contact for several months so knew nothing of her pending op, but I did know she detested her boobs). She had only had one "fling" in the 3 years or so I knew her and even then she never went naked from the waist up. When she came in she had her leather coat on so I never noticed anything and when she took it off I saw the massive difference straight away and when I asked her what she had done that for and how I thought she was lovely before she burst into tears, I felt a right twat and walked over and gave her a hug and said, I was sorry I didn't mean to sound cruel and besides it would always grow back. She asked me what I was on about....yes I am male..and very focused on the military task I had been involved in and was preparing to go back on top of that I was a committed single parent at the time (as she was too) and as a result I had switched off all matters sexual (it can be done men and ladies) as I needed to focus on my son when at home and keeping myself alive when away. My son attended a military sponsored school where he would board if I was away and he knew my situation and as an adult he has said he thoroughly enjoyed his growing up, before anyone rattles my cage) Anyway back to the young lady I was hugging her and she started sobbing and pushing me away and I let go and asked what was up after all it was only hair and she could grow it back, she looked at me dumbfounded and said "not my hair you idiot" (or something similar!?!) and pulled her top up to exposed her bandaged chest and said "these you fucking idiot"....I genuinely hadn't noticed I just thought she had cut her hair again! She was one of the most wonderful ladies/women I ever met (and yes we did "date" for a while, it worked great for us both) and when she eventually met someone and my son grew up and I did too she disappeared for a while. We met a couple of years ago and she said her whole life changed for the positive after her operation, after building up her confidence when we where together (previous husband was a twat of the highest order, physical and verbal abuse where his best powers...we sorted that out whilst away on operations for 4 months, he understood by the tour end what he had to do and he moved out and left her alone) she became aware of the fact that those who would previously buzz around her like flies never came near her any more. But, more importantly she found women felt less threatened by her (she was baffled by that one) but to her surprise and I suppose delight, men now talked to her face, not her chest and actually held conversations with her. She is now a far greater, happier and confident woman for having the operation. She told me the huge size of her "pendulous" breasts had not only weighed her down physically and mentally but the held her back, they stopped people from taking her seriously and as result had hampered her career oh yeah and she could run without terrible back ache and having to bandage the bloody things to her chest to stop them from pulling her back out of line! I hope you get some, if not all the benefits she did. It not only changed her, but her whole life I wish you every success and happiness with your new body, and new life with the NEW YOU! And thank you for being so brave and sharing your story with us x |
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#464
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03-11-2013, 11:02 PM
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 My Rank: CORPORAL Poster Rank:1425 Female Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 410 Mentioned: 1 Post(s) Quoted: 33 Post(s)
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Re: My Breast Reduction
Hah, no worries, it happens! They've served me well, settled, scars fading. Attaching a recent photo from a month or so ago. Yeah, attaching a photo. Yes, thank you! And I don't mind the incredibly minor difference, because it happens. I think the right one is bigger, considering that's the one my boyfriend favors. :P Thanks! She's actually a JL :P Yes, I can only hope I helped people with this post! Of course! The more, the merrier!  · |
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03-12-2013, 01:47 AM
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| My Rank: CORPORAL Poster Rank:1425 Female Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 410 Mentioned: 1 Post(s) Quoted: 33 Post(s)
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Re: My Breast Reduction
Haha, am I really? I mean, my reddit pics have 500k unique views, but it's weird. I remember I was chilling with my boyfriend at his brother's house, and we casually mentioned meeting on reddit, and the brother's friend said, "Where?" and I said, "Oh, my breast reduction AMA." he said, "Woah, I remember you. I'll have to look at it again!"  |
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#468
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03-12-2013, 03:05 AM
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 My Rank: FIRST SERGEANT Poster Rank:417 Male Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 2,771
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Re: My Breast Reduction
They look much better, amazing set you have now, nice and firm. Not bad scaring either.
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03-12-2013, 11:48 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
Aw, thank you. It has been an incredible journey so far for me. It happened 2 days after I graduated high school, and then me life began to get so much better. The surgery improved my confidence and quality of life. And also, when I posted it to reddit on /r/TwoXChromosomes, I posted photos and let people ask questions, and on that thread, I encountered a guy. He quoted Lion King and I didn't understand the reference, and he said, "If you're ever in town, we should watch it." Well, we lived around 15 minutes or so apart, so I started talking to him, and then we met in August, and were inseparable after that. We became official in October. And to think, this is directly because of my surgery. Now, I have someone who loves me and sees past the scars, sees me for who I am, and I am so in love, so happy, and so grateful to have things work out this way. |
