My Stillborn Daughter, She Died of a Placental Abruption

LrlynJy · #**171** ● 11-26-2015, 10:00 PM

but the baby did die and the mother did live....so, nothing is more unfair than being born, dead.

a lot of almost similar situations here. crash leaves one family member alive while the rest died, some crash left drivers alive while the rest died...

i guess there's nothing unfair with situations when there too little we can do about it. It's just probably how it's meant to be. some lives long, some for a short while, some doesn't. i believe much in science but i also believe in those things that are un-explainable and that science can only make a feeble attempt at trying to explain it.

fate and destiny comes to mind.

Rogan · #**172** ● 11-27-2015, 01:36 AM

Originally Posted by mgala ↗

Lol. Did you place her hands like that? Makes it a little humorous to be honest.

hm, actually I agree, although I wouldn't use the word 'humorous.' hand placement on an infant is odd but then, people do odd things. that's what they do.

Jeff4221 · #**173** ● 11-27-2015, 08:45 AM

Beautiful name. I also lost a daughter almost 20 years ago, not sure what happened. It stays with you. I'm sorry for your loss.

1594 · #**174** ● 11-28-2015, 07:55 AM

So beautiful & serene. Her name suits her perfectly. Thank you for sharing.

Oonie · #**175** ● 11-14-2017, 05:17 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss. My son and daughter-in-law had a baby born "sleeping" just one week before on November 4 2008.

Mysticmoonflower · #**176** ● 11-15-2017, 04:59 AM

Thank you for sharing, I love her name, it’s very hard to lose a baby, I lost a baby boy myself. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you posting that photo, I don’t know what everyone is on about. Why else are they on here if not to see death!?

philovan · #**177** ● 11-15-2017, 05:03 AM

Originally Posted by Rogan ↗

hm, actually I agree, although I wouldn't use the word 'humorous.' hand placement on an infant is odd but then, people do odd things. that's what they do.

Humor is in the eye (or ear) of the beholder (or listener). It almost looks like the baby is wearing shades, which adds to the effect.

trean362 · #**178** ● 11-15-2017, 06:10 AM

Sorry for your loss, she looks at peace.

FavaBeans · #**179** ● 11-15-2017, 05:22 PM

Livores · #**180** ● 11-17-2017, 03:52 PM

Originally Posted by PrettyHateMachine ↗

This is my Daughter. "Born" November 11th, 2008. She passed at a result of placental abruption. I delivered her on a Tuesday, but she was believed to have passed the previous Friday.

I did no drugs or anything of the sort. She was 31 weeks when delivered. I look for no sympathy. Just wanting to share and contribute.

She was 3 lbs even, and 16 1/2 inches long. I named her Serenity, a name which I choose as soon as I found out she was a girl.

I know that this post is old. But sorry for your loss and your daughter looks wonderful.(but I wonder what the staff was thinking when they placed the arms like that, when I handle (dead)infants or children I never cross their arms, it don't feel right for me, a infant or child almost never have that position like when they sleep)

But I wish you all happiness after what you have been through. (It know that it is 4 years since you made this post)

And you have a beautiful memento mori of your daughter.

But I'm surprised that some of the people feels like this is a horrible post. What is wrong with this?
150 years ago there was many memento mori in many families. Why is this different and wrong? And what if a person want to share their dead baby, why is that wrong?

I see nothing wrong with it.

My Stillborn Daughter, She Died of a Placental Abruption

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