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#103
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03-02-2013, 07:47 PM
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Re: My Stillborn Daughter, She Died of a Placental Abruption
I'm sure the last thing anyone who dies would've wanted is to have a picture of their corpse posted anywhere. Ever see an obituary? Notice they post a nice picture of the person while they were alive, and never a picture of the dead person in the casket? I went to my grandmom's open casket funeral about 5 years ago and I would've been really pissed if anyone, family or not, had the balls to take a picture of her in her casket, let alone take a picture and then post it online. IMO if you're posting pictures of your dead family members on this website, you are misunderstanding the whole point of this website. |
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#107
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03-03-2013, 04:44 AM
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Re: My Stillborn Daughter, She Died of a Placental Abruption
There is no misunderstanding. This section of the Forum is called "Death Pictures | The Real Faces of Death". And I was well aware there would be quite a few snide remarks. But I don't get offended easily. I honestly don't see what the problem is. Every picture that is posted in this section is someone's family member. Help me understand why it is wrong for me to post the picture that I did, but it's perfectly acceptable to post pictures of other people's deceased family members? I find it a bit humorous that on a site like this, where pictures and videos of the dead are posted, but it's taboo to post a picture of my daughter? Your logic makes no sense to me. And your remark "I would've been really pissed if anyone, family or not, had the balls to take a picture of her in her casket, let alone take a picture and then post it online." I can understand that. In the situation you didn't get the other person consent to take the photo and share it online, so it's understandable that you would be pissed. My situation is different. She is my daughter. I am the one who posted the picture. I didn't take the picture, but I gave the hospital consent to. And I know quite a few people who have taken pictures of their deceased family members. Everyone copes in different ways. To you it's unthinkable, but not everyone feels the way you do. I'd also like to point out, that the majority of the pictures posted here, I can safely assume the family members gave no consent for the photo to be taken and posted here. Maybe I'm just ignorant, but I honestly don't see the difference in what I did compared to all the other pictures that users have posted here. |
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#109
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03-03-2013, 01:47 PM
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Re: My Stillborn Daughter, She Died of a Placental Abruption
I think we are all over the place on this because of the emotional and personal impact of what you posted, because even for me it is quite difficult to view dead children. Please understand that I am not scolding you for posting a pic of your deceased baby, but I cannot believe that you are naive enough not to understand why posting that pic wasn't going to draw up some negative comments... Yes this is a forum involving "death pictures", but most of content posted on here doesn't directly connect the content to the poster. I mean, they don't usually involve an immediate family member, unless there are a bunch of Mexican cartel members or Syrian Rebels registered here, I could be wrong. Look, I'm completely on your side because I don't believe what you did was "taboo"; however, you had to have known that some people were going to have a "non-supportive" opinion about posting that picture... |
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#110
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03-03-2013, 02:11 PM
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Re: My Stillborn Daughter, She Died of a Placental Abruption
All of you debating this picture sound like a bunch of teenage girls arguing on instagram about some teen moms new nose. Grow up. She posted it. Shes fine with it. Move on. |