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10-24-2009, 09:16 AM
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Re: Domestic Violence (Case 1)
This makes me love my husband so much more. I put up with living like elizajane said and it ended around 2005. I never thought it would end. It was literally a waking nightmare. I don't want to get into it-I just want to thank the people who aren't judging the woman. And you're right-until you've walked in her shoes you can't judge her. It also makes me feel bad because I've smacked my husband around before. Granted he deserved it (he called me a cunt once and I broke his nose) but violence isn't the answer in any situation except self-defense if necessary. No one has a right to lay a finger on anyone else without consent, and too many fucking people think they are above that law. |
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10-25-2009, 01:12 AM
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Re: Domestic Violence (Case 1)
If it is something that happens MORE THAN ONCE, then it is something you have accepted. My first husband come home from work one day in a bad mood. I was laying on the couch with a headache.... He started screaming at me... walked across the living room... grabbed my wrist and slung me across the living room. I picked myself up OFF of the floor and went to the bedroom to pack my shit. He followed me in there... continued screaming at and threatening me..... I looked him in the eyes and told him if he didn't leave the room so I could pack my stuff and leave that they would not find his body. Do not presume to know me... or know anything about me.... and what I have been through. I am not niave. I just happen to know what I find unacceptable behavior. And if no one else has not figured THAT out for themselves, well then, that's not my fucking problem. And NO ONE will EVER make a punching bag out of me. I am stronger than that. Maybe YOU should get a backbone too. .... He came to where I was staying 3 days later... crying... saying "I'm sorry, I'll never touch you again..... Come home, please... we're a family" I looked at him and said... "Wrong me once shame on you. Wrong me twice, shame on me." And proceeded to close the door in his face. |
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10-25-2009, 08:55 AM
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Re: Domestic Violence (Case 1)
It's hilarious how men will treat women this way and yet act to their buddies like they're "the shit" (truthfully, they are...of the lowest form). What's even more hilarious is that whenever the tables are turned and another guy is about to beat them up, they start their crying and blubbering like children. It takes a real man to deal with problems with other solutions than a fist, it's a shameless wimp who can't and can only make himself feel superior by beating the person he also at the same time claims to "love". |