[Killgaad]

Originally Posted by Simone ↗

You need to chill out for once. You really don't need to explain yourself all the time. Just let your comments be + don't feel the need to justify them.

Simone, I can't help it, it's very hard—I have ADD.

Plus I'm a perfectionist, but for you, I'll try.

[SimoneFlen']

Originally Posted by Killgaad ↗

Simone, I can't help it, it's very hard—I have ADD.

Plus I'm a perfectionist, but for you, I'll try.

Thank you, though it doesn't particularly bother me. It's just that you'll drive yourself mad doing it all the time!

[Killgaad]

Meow.

[Killgaad]

Okey-doke:)

[samipiggy]

Originally Posted by epiclulz ↗

My boyfriend was 19 when I started dating him, and I'm 7 years older than him. I love how he didn't have any prior relationship baggage I would have had to contend with, unlike men I've dated who were older than me. Could fuck for hours too.

But yeah, it gets weird in any relationship if the younger one is a teenager and the older one is more than a decade older.

that's the exception :) i dated a guy just 9 months younger than me (i was 25, he was 24) and dang was he crazy immature!!

[Karma]

Originally Posted by Killgaad ↗

And regards to you too, Karma.

I see where you ladies are coming from, but all I'm saying is that *unless* he threatened her life 'at that particular moment,' what she did was not lawful, and obviously has legal consequences.
Prior abuse, as despicable as it is—which I vehemently abhor, btw—does not entitle a person to kill in retribution, but only in self-defense, under duress, and in fear for loss of life—simply because death is not an appropriate penalty—legally or otherwise—for the crime of domestic violence.
Furthermore, even a long-suffering victim of physical abuse is not legally or morally entitled to assume the position of judge, jury and executioner—and as such, abuse-induced rage may not constitute an affirmative defense in court, especially when the victim kills the abuser. The only caveat/proviso here—and qualifier—is whether her life was truly in danger at that moment.
Whether he deserved it or not is not something that the legal system will concern itself with—because it is a subjective notion.

Personally, I think justice would have been better served if he did prison time, or say, paying a certain sizable percentage of his wages to victims' rights organizations—and to his girlfriend.

Sadly, it's now too late for these two.

And yes, at least she's alive—because I admit, the flip side of the coin is that it is not impossible that he could have killed her at some point, either.


Regards to you both.

Your arguments are valid. I agree.
As a person who was in an abusive relationship for a long time ( and I am not a weak person mentally) I learned abusers only get more abusive with the passing of time. And many years of (varying degrees) of abuse will culminate in this scenario.
I remember a very vivid time when I was pushed to breaking point and the abuser, a physical training instructor in the marines was actually scared of me (he admitted years later) when I grabbed his throat and said, with my nose in his face “if I had a fucking knife in my hand this second it would be in your throat”.
I fully expected his “repayment “ later but much to my surprise he shook me off and turned away.
I would have definitely knifed him. But the weapon wasn’t in my hand.
The only good abuser is a dead one.

[epiclulz]

Originally Posted by samipiggy ↗

that's the exception :) i dated a guy just 9 months younger than me (i was 25, he was 24) and dang was he crazy immature!!

Well my man is Russian. Their men mature quickly!

[justjux2]

She looks manly to you? you don’t seem well versed in natural women.

Originally Posted by Killgaad ↗

He looks so feminine in his death pose and pictures.

On another note, testosterone seems to be coursing rather generously through her veins—but good for her if he truly attacked her with the intent to kill.

If, however, he did not—then she can be charged with murder/manslaughter.

Lunging with a knife to cut his thro