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#31
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10-08-2009, 02:29 PM
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Re: Raped And Murdered Women
Yea they talk a big talk but you are right until it happens to a love one they just don't know. They don't know that you just can't wake up the next day and everything will be fine. It doesn't work like that. Thanks shadow for all you have said you don't know what it means to me.
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#32
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10-08-2009, 11:28 PM
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Re: Raped And Murdered Women
Believe me, I've helped enough girls and women through the years after they were victims of rape and domestic violence that every word I said was heartfelt - actually, I was holding back considerably - these are issues that I have put a lot of time and passion into over the years, and I intend to continue to do so.
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#34
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10-09-2009, 05:11 PM
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Re: Raped And Murdered Women
I believe you and every word you say. Not only am I a rape victim but I'm also a domestic violence victim. I guess you can say had bad luck picking the right guys. After awhile I would stand up for myself and sometimes it would work but must of the time it wouldn't. I haven't been a dom vic for some time now. Don't worry the guy I'm with now treats me like gold. But my fucking x-husband is another story. Lets just say ten years of hell and shit.
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#38
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11-14-2009, 03:21 PM
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Re: Raped And Murdered Women
I wouldn't normally talk about this with anyone. I was raped as a child from 8 yrs onwards. The man who did it was sentenced to 1 yr in a pyscho hospital. Although I recieved compensation, it has never made any difference to how this has affected me. I handed my compo money out to people in the street, straight from getting it out the bank. Like butterfly, I can't go out myself, ( probly why I spend so much time on here, lol). It also affects my own 2 kids, who I am way too protective over, but it has given me an insight and ability to picture horrific crimes in my mind, that other people could just not envisage. I guess it's made me the person I am today and I'm pretty confident that I am a good person. So Butterfly, keep your chin up....... |