[icheerthebull]

Originally Posted by 30564U ↗

You know...that's the second time you've brought up my adoption in a very personal very negative light. You must be a real asshole. We now all know you're anti-American, anti-police, pro-Communist, and now apparently now anti-adoption as well. You are nothing but a typical Euro type progressive with a big chip on your shoulder when it comes tonanything American. To piss mouth someone for adopting children from ANY country is really chickenshit. You're a real badass from behind your computer monitor...just another anti-American Internet bully. I suppose it makes you angry that an evil American Capitalist would spend money to adopt children from another country. You're a cunt and your opinion no longer matters...you've shown your ass now and we can all see what you are...laughable.

lmfao. You have still to provide anything in relation to anything you have posted!!!! jesus christ! its on and on and on

anti american? you have 4 years worth of threads and posts to find something. Still nothing, not even something you can take out of context (fuck I could do that for you)

Pro communist? really? im pro commuinst by desplaying more knowledge of the vile acts commited by so-called 'communist' regimes then you? ok.

anti adoption? you are becoming laughable now! I dont question adoption, Its a nobel act. Im anti YOU when it comes to adoption. YOU are a biggot, YOU describe every culture outside the US as 'savage'. I am questioning why someone who portrays himself in the manner that you have would travel so many miles to adopt/buy their children? is there a fault in the american adoption 'system'? you tell me?

Are you so against america? commie 'cunt'! are american children not worthy of you commie, leftist swine? evidently you hate blah blah blah cry cry cry. Anti adoption!!! jesus christ

If my opinion does not matter then stop stalking me and posting irrelevant shite. Back up your anti american accusations or justify being a 'I hate foreigners' biggot and then going to a foreign nation to adopt.

'evil american capitalist' fucking lol 'just another anti-American Internet bully' thats strange since you also made the accusation that I called you a bully, you know in the same post you spouted racist shit.

I trust you will follow your own rules and not comment on anything that goes beyond your driveway, not that you would have much to contribute

[30564U]

Wa wa wa wa biggott biggott biggott racist racist racist!

In answer to your question regarding my adoption and why I didn't adopt from the United States you cunt, I will explain so you will understand another internal American issue you are obviously unfamilure with...you Communist anti-American asshole. Your veiled attempt to paint me into the "racist corner" by not adopting domestically and choosing a White child from Russia is a fucking low blow even from you. What you fail to know about adoption is only surpassed by your failure to understand what goes on in America you raving jackass.

For your information we tried to adopt domestically for several years. But with the current trend here in America we would be required to enter into a contract to allow the dipshit drug addled birthmother to "co-parent" and "visit" her child no matter what her condition or circumstances. Most adoptions here in America are what's referred to as an "open adoption". Meaning that the birthmother has rights and privileges that might not be a great idea to subject a child to. See the only way adoption agencies or adoption lawyers can get semi-ok children is to get the birthmother before she delivers. So you're introduced to the birthmother when she's in her second or third trimester. You as the adoptive parent must pay for her housing, medical, living allowance, vehicle, etc. You, as an adoptive parent must also go through a fairly extensive background investigation, drug screen, psych screen, medical screen, etc...which is no big deal, but the birthmother doesn't...get it? You're dealing with an unknown. You must agree to provide for her until she delivers and medically even post delivery and she can take your money and leave at any time or keep the child or give the child to someone else. Because you apparently live in utopia you may not realize what a birthmother is today. Well, she's usually in her late twenties or early thirties, has a drug problem or has had a drug problem, has a criminal history, has some minor or not minor psych issues, has no money, and makes very questionable life choices at best. Then this birthmother idiot gets to choose who she gives her child to...that's fair enough, but she gets some limited parental rights by being allowed to visit, co-parent, etc. Just for you information we had two birthmothers that chose us. After I did a little investigation on the first one, it turned out she was a career criminal from Texas, scam artist, had given up other children for adoption and scammed several adoptive parents out of several thousand dollars. The kicker was she had been impregnated by two seperate Black guys that she failed to inform us about and her "husband" did know anything about the two Black guys. And she wanted...no demanded contact with the child. Given my career...she and her issues and lies were not acceptable. The second birthmother was from here in California. After I did my investigation, I found out her two brothers were in State Prison for murder, mayhem, rape, etc. and were known biker gang members and White Supremisists Prison gang members. Her father was the Sargeant At Arms for a local well-known biker gang. The birthmother had a history of drug and alcohol use and I found she had lied about most of the circumstances that led to her pregnancy. And guess what? He father demanded visitations with the child. Well...based on my career that was a no go as well. We were discriminated by the social workers and lawyers at every turn based soley on my career and ended up losing over $20K just to escape. We tried China, South Korea, Japan, Vietnam, Poland, Ukrane, Rumania, and finally settled on Russia. We chose Russia because they had the most medical and psych information on the children and birth parents. We had full civil/criminal histories, drug, alcohol, and any prior adoption history on the birth parents. Yup...we paid a lot for these two girls. Neither my wife or I ever stipulated the child's sex or race in choosing our children...in fact we were just looking for one kid...that we got two was pure luck. Both my wife and I were picky about the child's health and mental condition because we are a little older than most that were abopting and we knew we wouldn't live as long as someone younger...so health and mental health were important to us.

There now you have all the information...stop bringing up my adoption and using it to make your lame points about racism and bigotry. Fuck'n anti-American anti-police bitch.

[icheerthebull]

You're a cunt and your opinion no longer matters

Evidently by that wall of text. Ill read it tomorrow.

[Spiffyfable]

I never really knew

[LadyCPlum]

WILL YOU GUYS TAKE IT PRIVATE ALREADY???????????????????