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02-14-2012, 06:26 AM
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Re: Depressed Student, 14, KILLS HIMSELF In Middle Of School Cafeteria
Selfish bastard. He traumatized 70 kids because of his selfish act. I hope he survives, gets his head on straight and then apologizes to the students. If he wanted to do it, don't do it in front of a bunch of impressionable kids!
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02-14-2012, 01:42 PM
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Re: Depressed Student, 14, KILLS HIMSELF In Middle Of School Cafeteria
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02-14-2012, 01:55 PM
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Re: Depressed Student, 14, KILLS HIMSELF In Middle Of School Cafeteria
this happened at our school but it never made the news. one of my wifes friends shot himself in the head on campus when he was 15. my good friend in high school and his girlfriend killed themselves in their car in the playground at the elementary school and a group of elemetary age kids found them. shit like this happened alot where i'm from... i have story after story of all the kids i went to school with who died... i think 10 or so people i knew died before leaving school and my class had 100 kids in it. kinda thought this stuff happened all the time and an home schooling my kids due to my and my wifes experince at the same public school.
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02-14-2012, 02:19 PM
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Re: Depressed Student, 14, KILLS HIMSELF In Middle Of School Cafeteria
Sorry for the loss of your friends. I don't want to appear insensitive in my posts. I had a friend going through a divorce and argued with his wife and went in his yard and blew his brains out. I did not attend the funeral (I did speak to his family). When my buddy asked why I said "Because he was such a selfish prick he has two boys in elementary school who will grow up without a father. Who will not see them go to their proms, graduate, have children, etc.".
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02-14-2012, 02:49 PM
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Re: Depressed Student, 14, KILLS HIMSELF In Middle Of School Cafeteria
I didnt think you were being insensitive at all. everytime i've lost a friend or loved one to suicide, i've always thought it was a very selfish and inconsiderate act because it is. I understand how selfish it is because i've been there before. i've posted the whole story on here a few times but long story short, i realized that killing myself would prove nothing more than how weak i was, not how bad my life was... it would prove my inability to cope with the same issues everybody else has. It proved that i cared more about how i felt then how others felt. more importantly, it would cause nothing bur heartache on all those around me...those i claimed to love. i feel bad that people get to that point and i understand the urge to take the easy way out... but in the end, the only ones that suffer are those around that had to deal with the aftermath left behind. it rarely crosses a person's mind, i think, when i a state like that, that somebody else will have to pick up the emotional toll and the physical mess they leave behind. it's tragic for everybody involved and all the pain comes from one selfish act. it was always way easier to lose a friend then it was to deal with the friends family (mom, dad, siblings) crying to me asking how this could happen. it was very hard to deal with that and i don't feel like i deserved to go through that experince just because somebody else was weak. what did i do wrong that i deserved to go from being a kid and hanging our with friends to losing a friend and counsoling bereaved loved ones? friends dont do that to others. so i agree... it was very selfish. ok.....rant over. i'd better go smoke a bowl and chill the fuck our, eh? |