[crispy1]

Its sad that it takes this kind of thing to bring the spouse and the side piece together.

[REVZZYBAN]

Originally Posted by WonderMomma ↗

There are other dicks in the sea...

Anyway, perhaps she actually loved him. Or she is his sister.

Either way, sad seeing anyone crying like this next to someone who's just been murdered.

I have “SERVICED” my significant other thousands of times and it had nothing to do with a DICK. Companionship and all its responsibilities is what I had in mind Including DICK, but not all inclusive to DICK. Lose a loved one and experience grief for yourself.

[WonderMomma]

Originally Posted by REVZZYBAN ↗

I have “SERVICED” my significant other thousands of times and it had nothing to do with a DICK. Companionship and all its responsibilities is what I had in mind Including DICK, but not all inclusive to DICK. Lose a loved one and experience grief for yourself.

OH! so your initial statement about her boyfriend not "servicing" her anymore was about love and companionship? Come on....

Now you're trying to pass your statement off as something serious and empathetic? GTFOH.

I know grief... too well. You don't know me so don't make even more silly statements like "lose a loved one and experience grief yourself"... as I already have. Hence, why it's particularly hard for me to see someone else experiencing it.

[REVZZYBAN]

^^ Happy NOT to know you. My IGNORANCE kept me married 37 years until death do us part.
SO YOU GO FUCK OFF.
The end.

[WonderMomma]

Originally Posted by REVZZYBAN ↗

^^ Happy NOT to know you. My IGNORANCE kept me married 37 years until death do us part.
SO YOU GO FUCK OFF.
The end.

I'm sorry you lost your partner. That is horrible. I mean that from one human being to another.

I have also lost a partner, a long time ago. After we had moved on, but remained friends.
And a child.
And two best friends who were brutally murdered and dumped on the side of a highway.
Another friend two weeks later to suicide who was the boyfriend to one of my murdered friends.
Another good friend whom I found against a tree in her yard after she had shot herself in the head, a few months after my friends were murdered and the other killed himself.

I could go on and on.

So while I'm fucking off... you go fuck off as well.
Grief is grief. We have ALL have or will experience it. But it pisses me off you are using your loss to cover up the fact that your initial statement is STILL ignorant and sounded like this girl is a prostitute. "servicing" implies nothing but sex in this context.


#FACTS
ok... officially fucking off now so I don't get in trouble.

[SimoneFlen']

Originally Posted by WonderMomma ↗

I have also lost a partner, a long time ago. After we had moved on, but remained friends.
And a child.
And two best friends who were brutally murdered and dumped on the side of a highway nude.
Another friend two weeks later to suicide who was the boyfriend to one of my murdered friends.
Another good friend whom I found against a tree in her yard after she had shot herself in the head, a few months after my friends were murdered and the other killed himself.

Shit man, that's terrible. I'm so sorry that you've had so much loss in your life + under those circumstances.

[WonderMomma]

Originally Posted by Simone ↗

Shit man, that's terrible. I'm so sorry that you've had so much loss in your life + under those circumstances.

Thank you, Simone. I didn't mean to participate in one-upping. Just trying to prove a point.

As hard as these and the other losses have been, I had to focus on ANY positives these experiences brought about, as a part of my process. That ability didn't come 'til many years later but helped realize without trauma or hard times... we would all be ignorant, weak, sheltered sheep.

I've learned to accept and validate all of my emotions and process them, openly and unapologetically. Only then I can gradually release that energy out of my body and mind.

Anyway... sorry to hijack the post with this. I digress.

[SimoneFlen']

Originally Posted by WonderMomma ↗

Thank you, Simone. I didn't mean to participate in one-upping. Just trying to prove a point.

As hard as these and the other losses have been, I had to focus on ANY positives these experiences brought about, as a part of my process. That ability didn't come 'til many years later but helped realize without trauma or hard times... we would all be ignorant, weak, sheltered sheep.

I've learned to accept and validate all of my emotions and process them, openly and unapologetically. Only then I can gradually release that energy out of my body and mind.

Anyway... sorry to hijack the post with this. I digress.

You're a very strong lady to deal with all of that, I certainly couldn't have done. Hopefully you've still got loved ones around you.