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#491
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04-03-2013, 12:07 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
http://www.bfar.org/reduction.shtml That website has got to have the best information of any of them I suspect.
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#492
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04-03-2013, 12:10 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
http://www.breastfeedingbasics.com/q...east-reduction Seems like a good answer.
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#496
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04-03-2013, 02:45 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
Eh, I had a strange relationship with that guy who I wasn't officially seeing. Long story short... he was incredibly manipulative and basically raped me when I was 17 and he was 19. He claims he didn't know I was underage, and then started harassing me for not having sex with him when I clearly said no (he forced me into a bj, which was the lesser of two evils, considering there were no condoms)... He has a girlfriend, so I wouldn't dare touch him, plus the whole rape thing. He also recently harassed me because I'm white and dating a black, older guy. (I'm 19, my boyfriend is 24) and he's saying I'm an idiot for dating an older guy, that I'm a whore for having sex with him, that I'm a size queen for only dating a black guy, and foolish and should have gone for him because he's SO much better. No. I'm incredibly happy with my boyfriend. He is fantastic, and I was legitimately shocked when we started having sex that he actually cared about how I felt. As in he made sure I was comfortable being touched in a certain way, asked if I was in pain, and stopped if I was uncomfortable, and just made sure I was alright with how things were going. The other guy never asked if I was okay and made me feel like a bitch for saying no to sex. |
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#497
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04-03-2013, 02:51 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
You know, that's love if you are happy that she's happy and in good hands. That's you looking out for her. Blah, I am in love with my boyfriend now, but I'm so young (19) so I don't know. I just want to finish school now and get married, and have kids, but I'll have to wait. We've only been together for almost 6 months, but he's 24 so I mean we'd have a stable life, but I shall wait. |
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#499
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04-03-2013, 04:44 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
he raped your face? that's horrible! happened to me at 17 and when i vomited on him he slapped me around and fucked me hard. you definitely need to stay away from him. tell him to go to hell, cut off all contact, change your phone number if you have to. do not let him have your current address. and please tell someone, a counselor. this way if he tries anything, you will have all the back up you need.
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#500
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04-03-2013, 04:58 AM
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Re: My Breast Reduction
don't let him go! but do finish college, it's pretty much impossible to finish college once you have married and had kids. i told this to all of my kids and so far two are paying the price for not listening. it will be many years before my son goes to college again, supporting his two children and wife on a more than fulltime job. my daughter and her husband have a beautiful baby, they just got a puppy and her hands are full, she was attending college before this. she will again, lots of online classes in her rural community, still has to drive for an hour and a half to takes tests. but i repeat, don't lose him. i told my boyfriend when he asked me to marry at the age of 19 that i was too young and not ready. we were both in the air force and ended up in different places and never saw each other again. married other people. he divorced. i was in the process of leaving mine and HE FOUND ME AGAIN! we are together now, but we lost 31 years. at least we can both say that we have wonderful children from difficult marriages. if he sticks by your side and waits, what you both get will be so worth it! |