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03-27-2014, 09:16 AM
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Re: Is Abortion Murder?
I had an abortion because my birth control failed and I would have killed myself if I had to go through with the pregnancy. Yes, I put me and my own mental health first. If I can barely get through the day, how good a parent am I going to be? Adoption wasn't an option either because it wasn't just the end result (baby), the pregnancy itself would have undone me. And it wasn't the result of sleeping around as so many people seem to assume. It was the man who was and still is my husband, who is already raising one child he loves dearly but wasn't planned with his ex. How could I do that? How could I force him to raise TWO children he never wanted to have?? I really cannot stand how judgemental people can be over abortion. If you've never been in the situation you really can't understand what it's like. I do not regret it for a second. Sure there's been what if's, and it doesn't help that I had it the day before my stepdaughters birthday, but at the end of the day my life, which I'M ALREADY LIVING, is better off. |
