Student Jumps From 12th Floor to the Street Below

[Vedderman]

Bengali high school student took a header yesterday after posting a long, rambling diatribe on her FB page. She was killed instantly, due to severe skull fractures. Sort of interesting, really, to see hoe much her face was pushed out of its natural shape due to the impact against the back of her head. The large blood stain form her injury is visible on the pavement in the final image where they are removed her bagged body.

Bangla is a little hard to translate, even with machines. What follows is a direct machine translation, since a lot of folks on here always like to see the suicide notes. But I am not editing it for content, grammar, spelling, context, or syntax so parsing the details is up to you.

to my brother, thanks for being an as*hole and forcing me to commit suicide.
to my mother, victims should be blamed for rape was the end talk for me, i want you to know that it was the most shameful thing you've ever said to me, and hearing that from you, i knew this was it. thanks for always keep pushing me down when i was already drowning. and a bit of request stop acting so innocent. you and i both know what you all have done to me. oh! what an wonderful girl I used to be! and to my dad, thanks for ruining my life since sixth grade. actually, since I was born. you've always said how I was killing you through every fight that you started. now look at where we are. you ended up killing me. good luck to the rest of your fu*king patriarchic life. keep ruining people's life. cause that's what you're best at. i don't think even my worst enemies have bullied me like my family has. every thing i did, everything i liked was a big NO for you. sometimes i wish if you never had kids. cause all you guys can do is ruin their lives. all you ever wanted to do was to lock me in the house till you marry me off. why? because i was a GIRL. well if you had that much problem having a girl you should have thought before having me, but completely ruining somebody's life just because your perspective was different? the fu*k is that? i have a fu*king life if you hadn't guessed. i've tried. i've tried for years to compromise and live my life thinking there was an escape. maybe someday when i would be older enough. but now i know. it's just an illusion. there's nothing left. to those who are gonna say suicide is not the option or that i could still try, NO i can't. i'm tired. and things have gone beyond me. i tried my best to keep myself altogether. but i can't anymore. there's no escape. i can't deal with it.
Those who say that if there is a little quarrel with the parents, the dead will go? Go and see, Ga, this was not a day's quarrel, how much stress a person dies on his own. As long as I try myself, I will see. Bhuiga has been thinking of suicidal thoughts for 3 years now. So, everyone thinks and commits suicide, so they don't go to jazz. If someone wants help, you can't do anything without saying. If he does something again, then it is his fault. Victim was learning something in life without blame? Those who commit suicide do not commit Baap Ma Re Maira, Baap Ma E pushes them on the path of suicide. Do you think I really wanted to die? I was forced. Because of the society and parenting you have created. If you can't give your own life to a girl, please don't take a girl, don't ruin a man's life for your one decision. And this so-called father, mother, is taken down from the seat of the gods. Not everyone is the same, whether your parents are developed minded or not. Everyone stopped judging by themselves. I know many will say that there is a bigger problem in human life. People also live in Baicha. But I don't see their problem and my problem is the same. My reaction will not be the same as my mental and family condition. Suicide was the only way for me. All moments will be over. It's not that I didn't fight, I did it for four years. Now you can't. All trauma now triggers a physical reaction. Not possible now. No more options. Tell my friends, thanks a lot. Percy has survived so long for you. Thanks so much for the help. I love you so much. There is a lot left. Be well Try to eliminate this toxic parenting in your time. And again, these would mean that you have to spend for these processes. This decision was made after enduring mental torture day after day. From that class six. And before that I didn't understand well. Whatever I know, no one will change. Blame that victim. And if any of my parents have seen this post and my money has been squandered, give it to me, see for yourself what you are doing to me, for the sake of being a girl, all rights reserved, so when she grows up, she may need it. I hope that when I was young I would not give myra like the money I got or deposited. And my brother has nothing to say. I don't know how Thaikao harassed me in the same generation. There is no desire to know. I can't care anymore. Whatever you do with me, I hope you get back a thousand times as karma. And don't pretend to understand. If I have learned to understand from the age of 18, it does not matter for you to understand in 40 years. Even after that I tried to explain it with my fingers in my eyes. I haven't heard what people will say. Now take the guilt. Now look at what people say and regret it. That's what you should get.

[Karma]

Sad. She was obviously beyond help. Now she’s free of everything.

[Vedderman]

Originally Posted by Karma

Sad. She was obviously beyond help. Now she’s free of everything.

She was certainly pissed off. I've read hundreds (probably thousands) of suicide notes and very few of them had this level of rancor and venom. And she posted the note to opening viewing (ie. not just her Friends) so the entire world could see it. She wanted to call her family out and make sure everyone knew that she held them responsible for her decision. Or at least culpable.

[SimoneFlen']

Oh God, that poor bloke cuddling her body, so sad. Terrible that she clearly suffered in life, poor girl.

Great find Ved', thank you.

[SimoneFlen']

[FrankRagsdale]

did she pee when she hit the bottom??
in the fotos it appear so, but I have never seen this happen with suicide jumper before.

[Oonie]

That poor, sad little girl. I hope she is at peace.

[Vedderman]

Originally Posted by FrankRagsdale

did she pee when she hit the bottom??
in the fotos it appear so, but I have never seen this happen with suicide jumper before.

To be honest, I really don't generally feel compelled to point out stuff like this in my threads unless it has relevance to the scene or the case in some way, especially when it is already abundantly obvious in the photographs.

But since you have a habit of bringing it up, yes. Clearly she evacuated her bladder when she died. And as I have explained before (and doubtless will a thousand times more so long as I am posting images here), it is VERY COMMON for a a decedent to void the contents of their bladder and bowels in the case of a sudden, violent death. It does not happen all of the time, but it happens frequently.

That includes gunshots, stabbings, hangings, car accidents, and yes...falling/jumping from heights.

You really don't need to keep asking about it every time such images are posted here.

[akyan]

She's teenage girl growing up in a extremely patriarchal society in a digital age. Access to the world through internet allowed her to see what life could be like, so naturally she resents the restraints of her society. This is just a thought, but why I am compelled to comment is the following.

Her accusation of rape is what I found disturbing. The feeling of hopelessness even your family turns against you after you were violated is crushing. I feel a sense of sadness for her despair.

[Vedderman]

Originally Posted by akyan

She's teenage girl growing up in a extremely patriarchal society in a digital age. Access to the world through internet allowed her to see what life could be like, so naturally she resents the restraints of her society. This is just a thought, but why I am compelled to comment is the following.

Her accusation of rape is what I found disturbing. The feeling of hopelessness even your family turns against you after you were violated is crushing. I feel a sense of sadness for her despair.

While I agree wholly with your first paragraph, I believe you misread her post with regard to your second one. I did not infer that she was claiming to be raped and upset that her parents ignored her claim, but more that she (for the reasons you mentioned in P1) was shocked and horrified to hear her mother come down on the side of systemically-excused rape when the two of them were having a discussion about it.

It is still a pervasive mentality in many parts of that country, so I think finding out that her mother accepted (if not supported) the idea of systemic victim blaming left the girl feeling very isolated and unsupported in her views of rationality and enlightenment and safety in her own household.