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02-19-2019, 05:26 AM
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Re: Childless Man So Angry That He Killed His Wife
Exactly! I've personally decided to forgo having children and the most explosive partner candidates I've encountered have been all for having children of their own. Even if I wanted children myself, I could never dare to have them with such an unpredictable partner. I grew up in a volatile and occasionally abusive household, so I don't want to take the risk of passing it onto anyone. |
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04-12-2019, 06:31 PM
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Re: Childless Man So Angry That He Killed His Wife
But you are also passing up the chance to show them how to raise a child properly. passing up the chance of showing them "this is how you do it" by raising an upstanding child/ren of your own. you might become a great parent after all....
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06-22-2019, 10:37 AM
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Re: Childless Man So Angry That He Killed His Wife
Thanks for your comment LrlynJy and sorry for my late reply! At first, I didn't recognize your username and thought you were a troll, hence decided not to reply. Now when I checked out your comment to me, I realized you're the member previously known as "XybertroniX", so nothing to worry about there, I already remember you I was actually a tad too straightforward in my comment, though my occasionally abusive family background plays a role in my decision as well. In fact, I am childless by choice, but I doubt I would've been different if I had a more balanced childhood experience. I just didn't want to highlight it in my response, as this topic isn't about being childfree, it is about a brutally murdered woman. I'm an introvert and cherish both deep conversations and practical help, so I often feel frustrated and uncomfortable around young children. However, I adore teens (I've worked as both youth worker and substitute teacher) and have sometimes played with the idea of becoming an adult support person to one. My current life situation does not permit that, considering I'd probably have to move anytime for work. I like to think that everyone on here, on this planet, might need some caring and support at some point of their life, and that we need teen- and adult-orientated people too. I don't really like the idea that only children are precious and worth being nurtured and cared for. Hope this clarified my thoughts a little bit |