[DeeMarieGK]

Originally Posted by banana dick ↗

that's not really true at all. abusive men do not have their names put on a registry and they rarely go to jail for more than a night. people assume the woman either deserved it or was making it up, and people are expected to look past the fact that he's an abuser. women have to jump through hoops to even have a chance of getting a restraining order, and when they're finally brave enough to testify against him, they're blamed, intimidated and further victimized by the courts. god forbid they have a male judge or jury members. women are the ones who get prosecuted for DEFENDING themselves when they finally had enough.

also, it's always "innocent until proven guilty!!!11one" when it comes to a male suspect, but conveniently that never seems to apply to women. they are always "innocent until proven guilty" even when the woman is sitting there in a fucking body cast. "oh, she did it to herself!".

I need to get my mind out of the gutter!

[DeeMarieGK]

Total fail and now I cannot take another one. But there was your user name under woman choked.........you understand!

[RangaRang]

Originally Posted by banana dick ↗

that's not really true at all. abusive men do not have their names put on a registry and they rarely go to jail for more than a night. people assume the woman either deserved it or was making it up, and people are expected to look past the fact that he's an abuser. women have to jump through hoops to even have a chance of getting a restraining order, and when they're finally brave enough to testify against him, they're blamed, intimidated and further victimized by the courts. god forbid they have a male judge or jury members. women are the ones who get prosecuted for DEFENDING themselves when they finally had enough.

also, it's always "innocent until proven guilty!!!11one" when it comes to a male suspect, but conveniently that never seems to apply to women. they are always "innocent until proven guilty" even when the woman is sitting there in a fucking body cast. "oh, she did it to herself!".

Perhaps you've seen it differently. From personal experience, I can tell you that women have it much better in the divorce system and that women have much, much, much better chance of getting help and support- legal, social, emotional, financial- than men when it comes to domestic violence. Sure there are different cases on both sides but please look at the statistics for child custody cases, men get fucked over most of the time in this and many other regards. There is a huge, huge double standard in this respect.

As for innocent until proven guilty, again I have to disagree... most domestic violence cases involve two parties both being abusive to each other but upon initial review the man is looked at with much more suspicion than the woman. Compare Men's Domestic/Family Abuse Shelter to the amount of Women's Shelters there are... its almost an obvious evidence of the bias. Also, when people say "abuse", most minds shift to think of it in physical or sexual terms only, and because men have more physical strength, they bear the brunt of cynicism. But women can be just as abusive as men and I've known women who have not only emotionally or verbally abused their men but have beaten them, smashed lightbulbs and mirrors on them, given them stitches, etc. And this is largely overlooked both socially and in the legal system... men see it as embarrassing to complain about something like that, just like women do but perhaps in a different and stronger way, i.e. they fear public emasculation.

[Steve]

Originally Posted by banana dick ↗

that's not really true at all. abusive men do not have their names put on a registry and they rarely go to jail for more than a night. people assume the woman either deserved it or was making it up, and people are expected to look past the fact that he's an abuser. women have to jump through hoops to even have a chance of getting a restraining order, and when they're finally brave enough to testify against him, they're blamed, intimidated and further victimized by the courts. god forbid they have a male judge or jury members. women are the ones who get prosecuted for DEFENDING themselves when they finally had enough.

also, it's always "innocent until proven guilty!!!11one" when it comes to a male suspect, but conveniently that never seems to apply to women. they are always "innocent until proven guilty" even when the woman is sitting there in a fucking body cast. "oh, she did it to herself!".

You are beginning to annoy me with this over the top feminism, the statement you just made has some truth to it but you come across as hating men seriously you do fuck sake.

[DiamondSmiles]

Guys can get alot of money, if he marries a rich woman or he gets the kids. Woman do have to pay child support in the US, if the man has custody.