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Why Men Will Always Cheat

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A provocative new study shows that men who don’t cheat are setting themselves up for ‘socially-compelled sexual incarceration.’
Men who cheat, however, gives them the best of both worlds, sociologist Eric Anderson says.
And most of them who do still want to stay with their partner – they just want to have more sex on the side.

The American sociologist who teaches at the University of Winchester in England says monogamy has ostracised men from doing what they most want to do.
He writes in his new book The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and the Reality of Cheating, that cheating is the norm, not the exception to it, and it’s high time that people start embracing ‘sexually open relationships that coexist without hierarchy or hegemony.’
In the study, Mr Anderson surveyed 120 undergraduate men – both gay and straight. He found that 78 per cent of those with partners cheated, ‘even though they said that they loved and intended to stay with their partner.’

In an interview with the Huffington Post, he says men want to be emotionally monogamous, though their ‘body craves sex with other people somatically.’
For the purpose of raising a family, he says, it’s the emotional – and not the sexual factor – that counts.
He says: ‘Our physical desires don’t die; they just change from our partner to other people…When the sex dies, the relationship has just begun.’
To Mr Anderson, it’s better for men to cheat and repent for it, since telling their partner that they want sex outside the relationship is a tried-and-true relationship-ender.
‘When men cheat for recreational sex – not affairs – they DO love their partners,’ he tells the Huffington Post. ‘If they didn’t, they would break up with them.’

He states that the feelings of betrayal many partners inevitably feel after a man cheats is simply because of a ‘socialised victimhood.’
The Huffington Post noted that in the study, men were perfectly alright with sex outside of a relationship for them, but not for their partners.
To this, Mr Anderson says it's not necessarily fair, but he says monogamy often drives men to pursue sex with another in the future.
The sample size and targeted group is questionable to stand alone as a study, the Media Research Centre Network said, and asking undergraduate men about monogamy - in a time many are exploring and pushing boundaries.
In the article, the writer criticises the idea that society is to blame for the issue and makes it an impossible standard for men to uphold.

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Re: Why Me Will Always Cheat

Just seems to me it's some pathetic study to give men excuses to cheat

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i almost agreed with this "study" BUT as i kept reading, it did start to feel as them trying to pass off a reason as to make cheating acceptable (for men).. heck, i dont know why it has to be only about men, like women never cheat.

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Re: Why Me Will Always Cheat

cheating is wrong. threesomes are more fun.

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Re: Why Men Will Always Cheat

i believe as a species we aren't built to be monogamous. so i agree with this study to an extent but i believe women too just aren't built to be monogamous either

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Re: Why Men Will Always Cheat

So i am best remaining single only using a man for certain needs

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Re: Why Men Will Always Cheat

article written by idiots. what they should be doing is promoting open sexual relationships, not cheating so both parties of the relationsip can have their cake and eat it

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Re: Why Men Will Always Cheat

I am a man and have never felt compelled to cheat. If it comes to that point, have a talk with your partner and decide if the situation can be rectified or if it's time to part ways. Sneaking around is a waste of time and energy.

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Re: Why Men Will Always Cheat

If your partner can't rely on you to keep in your pants, then what can they rely on you for? Cheating is a great way to show your girl that you don't give a fuck about her.

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Re: Why Men Will Always Cheat

whats weird is, i'm a man, never cheated on anyone in my life. and i have been cheated on by women. Funny world isnt it, men and women are just as bad as each other, some cheat, some don't.

hard to find someone that isnt a CUNT.

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