#51  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:26 PM
pard'ner's Avatar
pard'ner
Offline:
So Fucking Banned
Poster Rank:158
Male
Join Date: Sep 2009
 
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
0/20 13/20
Today Posts
0/11 sssss5078
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kanda444 View Post
you're forgetting that usually the authorities dont help...if they found substance on her when they came to pick her up, they would likely put her in jail until she had the baby, then remove it from her custody. starting off a baby in foster care isnt the best idea either.

honestly, she should consider an abortion but if it were my family member, i would try to help first.
Naturally precautions should be put in place, like not handing her over to cops with rocks in her purse etc....

He just has to make the right calls. There is help out there, and it can be forced.
The Following User Says Thank You to pard'ner For This Useful Post:
Kanda444
  #52  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:28 PM
Weatherly's Avatar
Weatherly
Offline:
Princess Bubblegum
Poster Rank:48
female
Join Date: Feb 2010
 
Mentioned: 18 Post(s)
Quoted: 1146 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
8/20 11/20
Today Posts
2/11 ssss13533
Re: Drug Addicted Babies



Apparently this baby's mom was on drugs.. but honestly who knows. Sometimes you can't even really tell physically that the mother used drugs. Sometimes there are more behavioral issues down the road.
The Following User Says Thank You to Weatherly For This Useful Post:
azimuth
  #53  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:28 PM
Kanda444's Avatar
Kanda444
Online
....you holdin?
Poster Rank:20
Join Date: May 2010
Contributions: 23
 
Mentioned: 93 Post(s)
Quoted: 6231 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
16/20 11/20
Today Posts
11/11 ssss27158
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by fletch541 View Post
and leaving her with a drug addicted mom is safe
ofcourse not!! i said try to help first, not offer help then let her figure it out. not all drug addicts stay addicts... i know a man who gave up a $100 a day coke habit once his son was born... turning him into the authorities wouldnt have helped any... had his family turned him in instead of helping him, i would have grown up without a dad.
The Following User Says Thank You to Kanda444 For This Useful Post:
mrm1109
  #54  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:29 PM
Weatherly's Avatar
Weatherly
Offline:
Princess Bubblegum
Poster Rank:48
female
Join Date: Feb 2010
 
Mentioned: 18 Post(s)
Quoted: 1146 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
8/20 11/20
Today Posts
2/11 ssss13533
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

and look how you turned out..


The Following User Says Thank You to Weatherly For This Useful Post:
Kanda444
  #55  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:31 PM
Kanda444's Avatar
Kanda444
Online
....you holdin?
Poster Rank:20
Join Date: May 2010
Contributions: 23
 
Mentioned: 93 Post(s)
Quoted: 6231 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
16/20 11/20
Today Posts
11/11 ssss27158
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by pard'ner View Post
Naturally precautions should be put in place, like not handing her over to cops with rocks in her purse etc....

He just has to make the right calls. There is help out there, and it can be forced.
that wasnt in your advice.... so had he taken your advice and called the cops, the outcome would have been different.

i agree that he should consider that if he cant talk some sense into her first.. also, if she cant be reasoned with in a timely manner (meaning days, not weeks), then authorities should be brought in to help.

im not claiming to have the right answer here at all.... i dont know what would actually help. im just giving my opinions, is all.
  #56  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:32 PM
Kanda444's Avatar
Kanda444
Online
....you holdin?
Poster Rank:20
Join Date: May 2010
Contributions: 23
 
Mentioned: 93 Post(s)
Quoted: 6231 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
16/20 11/20
Today Posts
11/11 ssss27158
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by BunnyGuts View Post
and look how you turned out..


.........

........






good point. call the cops.
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Kanda444 For This Useful Post:
azimuth, Weatherly
  #57  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:38 PM
fletch's Avatar
fletch
Offline:
So Fucking Banned
Poster Rank:94
drugs
Join Date: Aug 2010
 
Mentioned: 14 Post(s)
Quoted: 1482 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
0/20 10/20
Today Posts
0/11 sssss8420
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kanda444 View Post
ofcourse not!! i said try to help first, not offer help then let her figure it out. not all drug addicts stay addicts... i know a man who gave up a $100 a day coke habit once his son was born... turning him into the authorities wouldnt have helped any... had his family turned him in instead of helping him, i would have grown up without a dad.
when my son was born he tested positive for drugs and because of this DHS became involved. His mother was sent to treatment from the hospital and I was interviewed and also sent to treatment. His mother continues to use and I have custody. I would say for some being reported is absolutely necessary it saved my life.
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to fletch For This Useful Post:
daughterofthenight, Kanda444, Sybil
  #58  
Old 09-06-2012, 05:41 PM
Kanda444's Avatar
Kanda444
Online
....you holdin?
Poster Rank:20
Join Date: May 2010
Contributions: 23
 
Mentioned: 93 Post(s)
Quoted: 6231 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
16/20 11/20
Today Posts
11/11 ssss27158
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by fletch541 View Post
when my son was born he tested positive for drugs and because of this DHS became involved. His mother was sent to treatment from the hospital and I was interviewed and also sent to treatment. His mother continues to use and I have custody. I would say for some being reported is absolutely necessary it saved my life.
there you go. you have more experience with this kind of situation than i do. glad it worked out for you guys.

like i said, i wasnt saying i was right.. i was just stating my opinions. i would still try to help her first, and if it didnt do any good (and im talking within the first 2 attempts at helping) then i would make that call as well.
  #59  
Old 09-06-2012, 06:24 PM
YSHServant's Avatar
YSHServant
Offline:
So Fucking Banned
Poster Rank:170
Male
Join Date: Jun 2012
 
Mentioned: 25 Post(s)
Quoted: 1349 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
0/20 5/20
Today Posts
0/11 sssss4495
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by pard'ner View Post
Wtf? I was!

Best advice he's gonna get on the topic.
It's not as simple as that. Even if she was clean during the pregnancy, the drugs she has already done would be a factor in mental illnesses that may come up later down the road.

This is one reason why I haven't put my sperm in another female. I've done a fuckload of drugs, and I definitely don't want to have messed up kids.
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to YSHServant For This Useful Post:
azimuth, daughterofthenight, Kanda444
  #60  
Old 09-06-2012, 06:26 PM
Kanda444's Avatar
Kanda444
Online
....you holdin?
Poster Rank:20
Join Date: May 2010
Contributions: 23
 
Mentioned: 93 Post(s)
Quoted: 6231 Post(s)
Activity Longevity
16/20 11/20
Today Posts
11/11 ssss27158
Re: Drug Addicted Babies

Quote:
Originally Posted by HulkSmashYOUUUU View Post
It's not as simple as that. Even if she was clean during the pregnancy, the drugs she has already done would be a factor in mental illnesses that may come up later down the road.

This is one reason why I haven't put my sperm in another female. I've done a fuckload of drugs, and I definitely don't want to have messed up kids.
i wish people would think about shit like that BEFORE they get themselves into this situation.
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Kanda444 For This Useful Post:
azimuth, daughterofthenight, YSHServant
Documenting Reality > Faces of Death Chat & Research > The Water Cooler | The General Chat Area
Reply

Thread Tools


Amateur Sex & Naked Wife And Girlfriend Forum




Powered by vBulletin Copyright 2000-2010 Jelsoft Enterprises Limited.

Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO